I know we all tend to think this, although we may not admit it, but I highly recommend empty nut shells and pineapples instead of flowers as a gift giving solution. Males giving flowers are “speaking the language of love” I’ve heard. They have a language all right! No matter what kind, or color, tflowers mean one of two things: “Look over here so you don’t realize I’ve done something naughty” or “I’m sorry! I’m sorry! I’m sorry!”
I recommend pineapples. They look good, smell good, and taste better than rose petals, which can be eaten also. For variety try lining empty walnut shells in a straight row on a cement surface for your loved one. This is a surprise. And it’s without hinting at guilt. It’s decorative, lasts indefinitely and IT DELIGHTS YOUR FEET. Crunching walnut shells vibrating up through the body and nestling in the teeth. And THEY SOUND GREAT!  Everybody likes nut shells and pineapples.  nancymauerman.com